“Share your goals publically so millions can be inspired and also hold you accountable!”

Should I share my goals publically or not? That’s the question that I have contemplated over for a long time. Some say it works while others say sharing your goals with others simply adds a negative log on the ever burning fire of laziness, procrastination, and self de-motivation.

I say “Share your goals publically so millions can be inspired and also hold you accountable!” I know the thought about, “why bother doing a New Year’s resolution?” “That only last a week, if not a day or two.” I like how Derek Sivers shares his opinion on this topic as he writes “Shut up! Announcing your plans makes you less motivated to accomplish them.” You can see the details at http://sivers.org/. Okay there is truth to what Derek is saying. I am the first to admit that I have failed on numerous occasions when I decided to get a fresh start with my life. You know the drill, “I want to reduce my weight, make more money, and improve communications with my wife and kids, yada, yada, yada!” Is yada even a word? Oh well, it works for now. I don’t think the bible says we should or shouldn’t share our goals publically. Can someone respond to that?

Well I have decided to share my goals publically in hopes that I may inspire millions to try one or two that I have listed. I also hope to experience the pressure that comes with being held accountable to produce positive results. If I never tell anyone, then nobody knows what I have or have not accomplished. If I tell everyone, then you know the drill. I’m sure I will get the occasional question. “What ever happen with that one goal thing you were doing?” “Hey, did you ever achieve that there thing you said you were going to do?” I know. This is crazy, right? Why put yourself under this kind of pressure? I do this because I have faith in God. I believe in myself. I have dreamed these things for a long time with little to no action. And now I am ready to receive HIS promise.

Don’t get me wrong readers. I know I may not hit the mark on all cylinders. It could be that some goals may not even make it out of the starting gate. But if I have my goals openly listed before my people and most importantly in front of me, they will serve as the road map, side rails, direction arrows, exit and entry ramps, and mile markers which will keep me focused, on track and aware of my progress. Publically sharing my goals with my people will also serve as built-in encouragement, affirmation and support delineation. Though not always necessary, I can receive a rejuvenation of energy and drive by the number of people who inquire of my progress and encourage me through sending well wishes that will keep my drive fluid. I can also discover a refreshed network of people that can and may align with my mission and perhaps affirm not only if my track makes good sense, but also offer avenues of ways and techniques to consider for achieving my goals. And of course there may be those that want to see me fail and are only checking in to find out if this is yet another positive candle lit pipe dream blown out again. With that said, I can determine to whom I consider a positive or negative resources for support.

I have thought about this and prayed about it long enough. Now I am ready to share my goals publically so millions can be inspired and also hold me accountable.

Dave Wess Sr.’s goals for 2010
Please pray for me!

Spiritual: I will to grow my relationship with Christ and in more ways lead my family.

• Quiet time meditation and prayer at least once a day for 10 to 20 minutes.
• Read or listen through the New Testament twice before December.
• Conduct at least 5 to 7 bible or spiritual study sessions with family.
• Air at least 1 BlogTalk radio broadcast on a biblically based topic by end of year.
• Perform 2 to 3 speaking/preaching engagements by end of year.
• Teach or lead a small group 4 to 8 times by end of year.

Marriage: I will improve my relationship with my wife.

• Schedule and experience at least 6 to 8 dates with my wife. At least 1 each qtr.
• Conduct at least 5 to 7 bible, spiritual or couple type sessions with my wife. At least 1 each qtr.
• Conduct at least 3 review sessions to discuss focus needs in our relationship.
• Practice more patients in my communications.
• I will have my wife review my goals and will be open to her feedback.
• Do grocery shopping at least 6 times. Ouch!! This one hurts!
• I will increase doing dishes and cleaning around the house by 15% Oh the PAIN!
• Experience the 10 second kiss & hug at least 15 times. This ought to be fun!
• Health: I will to grow my relationship with Christ and in more ways lead my family.
• Reduce cigar intake by 75 to 95%.
• Reduce alcoholic beverages by 50%. I confess! Yeah, that’s right, I occasionally enjoy a beverage or two. Not like back I the day though.
• Reduce weight by75 lbs. by May 1st
• Work on a 1300 to 1500 calorie a day diet.
• Experience 30 minutes to 1 hour 3 to 5 days a week.
• Participate in at least one walk-a-thons for a charity.
• Participate in an aerobic class or a sport team at least 6 to 12 times. Zumba anyone?

Education & Certification: I pray funding will become available to apply where applicable to achieve the following.

• Experience the following: Take at least 1 to 2 courses at a university in one or more of the following areas.
• Public speaking
• Master training certificate
• Six Sigma (Green or Black Belt)
• Toast masters guest sessions
• Attend ASTD conference
• Attend National Speakers Association

Compensation: I will increase annual by 250%.

• Part-time ministry position at Dayspring Church of God
• DNA Leadership consultation.
• Business investment venture & Start-up opportunities.
• New Dave Wess Venture “Coming Soon!”
• Motivational Speaking

Consulting: I pray funding will become available to apply where applicable to achieve the following.

• Advertisements for consulting
• Community Media 4 to 10 times
• Radio PSA
• News Paper PSA
• Video Demos
• Motivational speaking
• Conducting training
• Instructional
• At least 4 to 6 Online BlogTalk Radio Shows
• 3 Consulting
• 1 Religious
• 1 Political or Sports
• 1 Family or Relationship
• Free and for pay speaking engagements:
• Spiritual: Vesper service preaching, small group, City Gospel Mission (Homeless)
• Educational: High schools, Middle Schools, College level
• Starting in Cincinnati, OH and going Global
• Advertisements for consulting
• Community Media 4 to 10 times
• Radio PSA
• News Paper PSA
• Video Demos
• Motivational speaking
• Conducting training
• Instructional.
• Have 1st Draft of 1st book completed by 1st of May.

“Is anybody ready to make some noise?”

“Make a Joyful Noise unto the Lord Today!”

Think about what it’s like when you are enjoying a sporting event with a group of people either at the stadium or watching on TV. You are watching your favorite team as they are working toward winning the big game! Let’s say a football game for example. The clock is ticking down to the end and your team has the ball on the 10 yard line. It’s the final play of the game and all they need to do is punch it in and score and they win it all!

The intensity grows during the final play as ball is hiked; the quarter back fades back, sees his open receiver; the pass is thrown and the receiver stretches out and catches the ball in the end zone for the score.

It get’s crazy doesn’t’ it? People are shouting to the top of the lungs. Can’t you see it? People slinging high fives, and fist pumps! People lunging in the air performing leaping chest pumps at each other at each other! The crowd goes wild!

How wonderful it would be if we reacted the same way when rejoicing unto the Lord and praising His Holy Name. Psalm 100 says: Make a joyful noise unto the LORD, all ye lands. Serve the LORD with gladness: come before his presence with singing. Know ye that the LORD he is God: it is he that hath made us, and not we ourselves; we are his people, and the sheep of his pasture. Enter into his gates with thanksgiving, and into his courts with praise: be thankful unto him, and bless his name. For the LORD is good; his mercy is everlasting; and his truth endureth to all generations.

We have a lot to be thankful for. Isn’t it awesome that we already have the victory in Jesus Christ? Jesus went to the game, scored and won it for us way back on Calvary when he suffered, bled and died; when he was buried and arose again with all power in his hands?

While our victory has already been won, the clock of life is still ticking for us. We still have time to take action and score on what some will argue the biggest play of your life! If you have not saved; it’s time to turn your life over the Jesus Christ. If you are saved, it’s time to make your relationship with Christ deeper. If you are called to serve in ministry, it is time to leap out on faith and take the next two or even three steps with your works.

Regardless your situation, as you strive to take action before the final second of the game, remember to think about the blessings you have already received. Think about how great God has been, is and will be and give God thanks! This time though, try giving that sporting event enthusiasm. Even if you look and feel crazy doing it, consider sharing your “what I’m thankful for” stories with your friends and family and while slinging high fives, and throwing a few fist pumps at each other? If you really want to give a go, try shouting to the top of the lungs and lunging in the air to do a leaping chest pump with each other! Now I want you to be safe, and only try and do what your health condition will allow. However, whatever you do, and however you do it, be enthusiastic, excited!

So I ask again. Is anybody ready to make some noise? “Make a Joyful Noise unto the Lord Today!”

“Stay Alert and Keep it Hot!”

Are you aware of your surroundings?

Are you ready to bring your ‘A’ game?

If so, then you know how to “Stay Alert and Keep it Hot!”

The phrase “Stay Alert and Keep it Hot!” came to me in a resounding and almost supernatural way! In fact, as soon as I experienced the thought, I began thinking of so many situations I during my life my journey where this concept was applied and yielded fantastic outcomes for me. I also began thinking of ways that you can consider this concept and apply it to your personal and professional walk in life.

Allow me to break this phrase down for you. “Stay Alert”: Sometimes you may find yourself trying to figure out a problem or situation and the direction in which you should turn is not clear. You have mapped all avenues and have searched beyond every nook and cranny for a solution to no avail. At the risk of being too simplified, let me try this example on you.

Let’s say you are the owner of a small marketing distribution business that requires you to package and ship products and materials throughout the United States. You are struggling with being able to afford the shipping expense due to rising cost of the carriers to the point where your business won’t survive unless you come up with a way to reduce your delivery spend while maintaining your pack and ship orders. You have negotiated with vendor after vendor. You have attempted to be creative in your shipping practices. You name it; you have tried it and have gained no success.

You happen to be at community picnic one day where you were enjoying the company of family, friends, neighbors, small business owners and community officials. You walked up and joined a conversation where the topic was about the challenges another small business owner was experiencing. You listen, but not too intently because let’s face it, you had your own problems to deal with and didn’t want noise from someone else’s situation to make you feel any worse than you felt already.

The small business owner shared about trying to start a delivery service being turned down by several lending companies due to not having a locked in client to produce a consistent revenue stream. The owner went on to say that one bank replied that if one client promises service for 24 months the loan request may receive approval.

As you hear this you begin to think how terrible it is that this business owner cannot even find one lender that is willing to help. To take it a step further, you think that with the number of people at this community event, there had to be at least one person that works for a bank that can give this business owner some advice on what to do.

Now, if you were in the “Stay Alert” mode, perhaps less thought would have been applied to finding a lender for the small business owner and more thought on connecting, networking and even negotiating a deal with this owner to produce a “win win” solution for both parties. To “Stay Alert” means you are aware of your surroundings which include conversations, media, business and social networks and occurrences around you in general, and you recognize opportunities for not only for yourself, but as well for others within your sphere of influence.
When I do one on one coaching, I often share two quotes;

“Your gesture of kindness can sometimes lead to greater opportunities for yourself.” “The door you open for others may be the key that opens the door of opportunity to the threshold of your destiny.” David J. Wess Sr. M. Ed.

Ok, let’s talk about the “Keep it Hot” mode. This applies to how you delivering your product, service, and your routine regimen and practice. In other words you always try to be ready to bring your ‘A’ game. Try this analogy out for size.

For those of you that like to enjoy a good hot meal, think of that favorite dinner you enjoy the most. I know there are so some many favorites out there, so let me just share one of my many favorites. I really enjoy hot fried chicken, with hot mash potatoes and gravy. Oh and let’s not forget a serving of hot seasoned collard greens or green beans. Top it off with some a hot biscuit or two with butter…..hmmmm. Doesn’t that sound good? If this is your favorite meal, then join in with my imagination. If this menu choice does not appease you, feel free to replace it with your own favorite meal selection. The main point is to think of your favorite hot meal experience and indulge me for a moment on two thoughts.

Thought #1: You like it hot, right? You want the taste to blend well with you buds. Taste buds that is. You want the aroma to beautifully resonate with your sense of smell. You want the appropriate level of juices to mix in an overwhelmingly dynamic fashion. Stay with me now. What if you were told to get ready because you are going to get served your favorite meal this evening? Your imagination immediately goes to work on all of your favorite hot meal memory description items. But wait! When you received your plate, it didn’t have all of the characteristics you are so fond of. And to make matters worse, IT WAS COLD!! Wouldn’t that turn you off? How disappointing would to make you feel?

Thought# 2: Think of how thought 1 started. Everything applies here, only this time when you received your plate and all the characteristics were in place the way you imagined. And the taste was out of this world. That would be AWESOME, right? Guess what? Tomorrow you will get the same thing! COOL, right? The next day you get the same meal again! Uh, uh, uh awesome........., I think. And again; same meal even the next day. Cool? After a while you begin to lose the excitement, don’t you? The thought loses its appeal. And while it’s still your favorite meal, you probably could use a break between now and the next time you plan to experience this menu, let alone even desire to have this meal ever again.

Such is true when you deliver your product. Whatever it is; if its customer service,”Keep it Hot!” If you are a speaking or delivering a presentation, “Keep it Hot!” If you are in management or in some type of leadership role, “Keep it Hot!” Don’t grow cold on your audience or followers. And to keep your followers interested, engaged and excited. Also consider changing your approach every now and then. After awhile the same old message day in and day out may get a little boring! So mix it up to keep the enthusiasm juices flowing.

So tell me now. Are you aware of your surroundings? Are you ready to bring your ‘A’ game to the table? Please share with me examples you have where the “Stay Alert and Keep it Hot” concept could have been or has been applied? I hope to hear from you. Until then make sure you “Stay Alert and Keep it Hot!”

“Recalling Your Personal History Can Be Revitalizing”

Do you have a relationship with God?

“Recalling Your Personal History Can Be Revitalizing”

I have a history with God. He has brought me through many trials and tribulations; hurts and pains. He has also showered me with favor and mountain top experiences. I know God for myself; I believe in Him and trust Him. I really love God and am learning how to love Him even more. I already know he won’t leave me nor forsake me; God has delivered me from my past; and even right now HE is delivering me from my present. The exciting thing is I know HE has already provided for me in my future.

No I don’t have it all together, so don’t get me wrong. This walk; this journey is a process. I’m just trying to be obedient. I have my days; I have situations that I go through that appear to be insurmountable. Illness, suffering relationships, out of work, you name it I have been through it. I have those days when I look into space and just wonder what is next for me. I think things like….

“God, are you sure this is what you want for me?”

“God this doesn’t feel good!”

“Hey God……………., I’m still here!”

“Oh God, can you hear me?”

“Are you listening?”

“Oh yeah, in the name of Jesus………did I forget to say that?”

Then I have to shake myself out of that thinking because that is when doubt creeps in. I can’t go there. When I go there I definitely can’t stay there long. If I go there and stay long, the enemy starts licking his chops; getting ready to eat me alive!

Have you ever been there and done that? You can’t stay there long, right? One thing that helps me work through situations is remembering my past; my past relationship with God, that is. Try it. Try remembering your personal history of events that you may recall experiencing when things were not going so well. Then ask yourself the following five questions. 1. What was your situation? 2. What things occurred that seemed to make matters worse? 3. What took place that gave indication that change or help was on the way? 4. What part did God play in this situation? 5. How was your relationship with God before, during and after you experienced this situation?

Please share with me your response to these questions as it pertains to at least one or a few situations in your past where God brought you through. Also share whether or not recalling that situation has helped you in the present. I am not only very much interested in reading your comments about this blog; I also want to read your answers to these questions.

Remember; if you are working through a challenge in your life and trying to make it through a situation, hopefully this blog and these questions will help you establish an outline of your past as “recalling your personal history can be revitalizing” and may help you think through your current situation.

“What Would You Say My Brand Is?”

Go ahead and ask the question.

“What Do You Think My Brand Is?”

In business, when you are trying to brand yourself or your organization, your opinion of yourself is not the only one that counts. The opinion of your network, your community, a potential client and the people you have around you should also be highly considered. Some might even say it is those opinions that matter the most.

When you are in your circle of professional colleagues, or working as a volunteer in your church or community; what do the people in those arenas say about you? What qualities and strengths would they say you possess? What is it about your behavior, style, professionalism and savvy that sticks out the most? This is the type of feedback that can help you establish a thought which can become the bases on which to build your new look, your new you, and your new brand identity.

If you already know the answers to the previous questions, then you are almost there. Now you have to determine which one, or few if not all of the feedback items you receive best describes the service you wish to provide, or product you which to sell, or simply the image you wish to project and promote as a part of your brand. If you don’t know the answers to the previous questions, then you need to get to work immediately and discover what these opinions are.

Therefore engage in your network. Get involved with your community. Strengthen your positive relationships that you hold closely, and begin crafting the brand that is revealed from the feedback you receive and experience. Go ahead and ask the question. “What would you say my brand is?”

“The 31 Days Until Thanksgiving Full Fitness Flight”

On October 26, 2009 I made it to the gym a 5:14a.m. I did 30 minutes of cardio and a full interior workout which included chest, triceps, and shoulders. It was a great workout. On my way to the car I thought how fun it would be to have people I know and come in contact with also plan to get in shape and improve on their health. Let’s keep it real. This would be a great time to get in shape because the holidays are just around the corner. To the extent one could decrease enough weight prior to the holidays it would enable an increased level of really enjoying all of the nice eating during the holiday.

As I thought more about my fitness effort I decided to consider not only improving the health of my body, but also include an approach on improving the mind and soul. So I decided to create a fun little game for anyone who wants to participate. So if you are reading this blog, perhaps you will consider joining me in a game of “The 31 Days until Thanksgiving FULL FITNESS FLIGHT!”

HOW TO PLAY “The 31 Days until Thanksgiving FULL FITNESS FLIGHT!”: If you don't exercise, please start doing some type of exercise each day. Try to do few sit-ups, push-ups or take a 20 to 30 minute walk. But only do what you know you are capable of doing. If you do exercise, take your efforts to highest level you can. Exercise more during “The 31 Days until Thanksgiving FULL FITNESS FLIGHT!”

If you don't read a lot, pick up your bible or some type of inspiration book or novel and read a page or a chapter a day. If you are a heavy reader, finish the book or journal you are in and try to complete 2 to 3 extra readings. Read more during “The Days until Thanksgiving FULL FITNESS FLIGHT!”

If you don't write much, pick up a pen and pad and jot down a positive thought each day that may inspire you and lift up others. If you write a lot, kick out a few extra notes of encouragement to people you know, and drop a few positive blogs out to your online connections. Write more during “The 31 Days until Thanksgiving FULL FITNESS FLIGHT!”

If you don't pray often, try to set aside a special time even if it’s just 3 minutes to pray for someone and yourself. You may even consider every time you are driving or riding in the car, or riding on a bus. Say a pray while you are going and while you are coming. If you do pray a lot, continue praying and add a few more minutes to every prayer you pray daily. Consider getting the list of names and addresses of the people on your street or in your apartment building or your church directory or even the public phone book and pray a personal prayer by name for a few families each day. Pray more during “The 31 Days until Thanksgiving FULL FITNESS FLIGHT!”

I am interested in hear how well you do or if you struggled along the way so please feel free to share with me how you are progressing during your flight. You can write me on Face-book, follow me on twitter at http://twitter.com/DNALeadership, or share your flight update on my website guest page at www.dnalcg.com Go ahead now! Set your goal and get ready for take-off! And after you land from your “The 31 Days until Thanksgiving FULL FITNESS FLIGHT!” be sure to GIVE THANKS for reaching your goal or at least doing more to improve your mind, body and soul!

“Sometimes Waiting Can Help You Win!”

What measures or steps do you take to assure your final product is at its best before you hang it out on display?

“Sometimes Waiting Can Help You Win!”

I’m sure you have been in or know someone that has been in a situation where rushing through a process yielded a less than successful outcome. Disappointment sets in and the wonder of why things didn’t turn out right or why the mistakes were not detected is at the forefront of your thinking. Let me give you an example in a story I once heard about a guy hanging wall fixtures and décor on his office wall. You know, to give his office space a little more personality. Well anyway, he purchased one of those adhesive “press and stick” wall mounts and hooks kits to use for hanging his items on the wall. He ripped the kit out of the package, quickly looked over the directions, then commenced pressing and sticking and hanging his items, which took all of 15 to 20 minutes to complete. It was close to the end of the day, so right after he strategically placed his items on the perfect wall location; he packed up his things and left for the day.

The next morning much to his alarm and disappointment, he came in to find his efforts ended up in a total disaster. All of the items he’d placed on his walls had fallen to the floor. Some item had even broken from the fall. “Why did this happen”, he wondered. “Those hooks and mounts are no good”, he mumbled aloud. As he rummaged through his fallen items and his mumble of disgust grew to a normal speaking tone, a co-worker approached and inquired about what had happened. He told the co-worker that he had purchased this faulty press and stick kit to hang these items up on his wall. He went on to share how quickly he had completed the task and complained of how the product was no good. The co-worker advised that when you use such products you have to wait an entire hour before you can hang or mount any item on them. You have to give the adhesive time to mature and perfect its bond before it is strong enough to perform at its best. The guy responded saying he had read that but given the fact his items were not even heavy, the mounts should have been able to hold them up.

Now in this story, had the guy waited he would have experienced joy and a sense of victory by coming in the next morning to an office set up to his liking. Instead he rushed and well, you know what happen. Sometimes waiting can help you win. The product directions say wait at least one hour before you hang anything on the mounts and hooks.

As you create documents, proposal presentations, executive reports or whatever; don’t rush through the process, wait! Check over your document. Have someone proof read it for you. Read it again. Get even a second opinion and make sure your grammar is at its best. When your material has matured; when your information packet is ready to perform at its best; then you are ready to present your proposal, and deliver the documentation. Like the hanging of the wall items, you are ready to mount your material and hang your final report before an audience or an organization where it will stick and be very well received.

Again I ask, what measures or steps do you take to assure your final product is at its best before you hang it out on display?